Daily Archives: December 5, 2010

Teamwork and compromise

It was supposed to be a simple exercise — exchanging a pair of Kai’s shoes for a bigger size.  The store was all the way across town, and we already had one errand to run in the morning.  Which leads us to a simple fact.  Journeys out of the home going over one hour, and definitely over 2 hours, need to accommodate the calls the nature.  And for Kai, this particular journey was beyond the safety zone.  Which started off with clamoring for food during changing subways, and slowly degraded from there.  But we finally made it to the shop with a very nice shopkeeper who was happy to change the shoes for the right size and even let us use the facilities for the necessary functions. It seemed like all the hard teamwork paid off well.

However, it turns out that while Chika had packed and extra undershirt just in case, Kai was in need of  full wardrobe change. And as much as it was hard to bear buying brand new boutique clothes in the middle of the season (yes, the full retail), you had to just take a laugh at the humor of it all — Chika even joked that it was Kai’s plan all along.  So my wife was happy, my son was happy, and at the end of it all, I was happy too.

P.S. Just a word of advice — I HIGHLY recommend the Japanese style nightshirts.  Easy on/off, and as they are looser fitting around the bottom you can avoid the pressurized explosions which seem to be occurring with the more tightly fitted tops.  You can check them out here or check out this example:

Familiar Newborn Wear

Berlin Metro gets an A+

Since we had only know Chika was pregnant for a few days just before we flew over to Berlin to look for apartments, we hadn’t switched over fully into parent mode.  Having lived in New York, Tokyo, London between the two of us, life on public transport was a way of life.  So we decided over the nicer apartment and neighborhood over the carpark.

Now the reality has sunk in with Kai onboard.  Yet, we are managing not too badly thanks to Berlin’s excellent transport system.  It’s not 100% perfect all the time, but in general more often than not there are working elevators in all the U-Bahn and S-Bahn stations (in fact I think I’ve never been to an S-Bahn station without elevators).  Thus, we can navigate the city without having to carry the Bugaboo up and down the stairs.

The pass fares are the cheapest I’ve seen — 72 euros for a full month, which includes bringing a guest after 8 and on weekends.  Or if you are more flexible, 36 euros for a month if you leave after 10am.  And it’s based on a checker system — there are no turnstiles anywhere, but you might be asked by someone along the journey for your ticket.  This is HUGE, because frankly baby carriages and turnstiles do not get along at all.

And on top of all this, it’s timed with German efficiency.  Just plug your start and end destination into bvg.de and you will get very efficient routings and timing to your destination.  And it works almost too well — sometimes you wish things were a minute or 2 later with Kai around.

We may move into car mode at some point, but for now we are happily enjoying being the eco-friendly city travelers.