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9 Months
Yes, it’s been a long time and a lot has happened, but we will come back to that later. Today Kai turned 9 months. And the changes are happening faster every day now. Lots of crawling, a few new syllables, and our little Magellan has left no stone (or anything else for that matter) of our apartment unturned. Thanks for a wonderful 9 months Kai.
Some scenes captured today from some of Kai’s local partners in crime.
Coffee Afternoon
Playing with Papa
Real World Miami
So what happens when you bring together 3 generations of Wolfsons and put them into a house in Miami for a week? You eat a lot, get some beach and pool time in, do some shopping and in general have a good time. Yes some conflicts can arise, but overall it was a very special and wonderful opportunity to enjoy the newest generation every day — I even got my niece Sydney to stop saying no and allow me to spin on my shoulders. In addition, we got to go to our friend Andrea and Sarah’s wedding in Miami which was wonderful.
I know it’s only been a week back, but I already feel like I need my next vacation…
Central Park Playdate
Kai had his first NYC playdate at the Central Park. We got lunches at Whilefoods for mommies, brought organic baby foods for babies, sat in the sun, and enjoyed lovely afternoon.
It rained a night before, so couldn’t use my favorite blanket just gifted from our family friend. Next time, I should bring a waterproof mattress to go under.
The park was filled with other NY moms. Of course, I didn’t forget to check out their fashions :). Getting new ideas? Sure!
Kai et Paris
Rollover Mastered
Practicing was not my favorite activity (and much money and time and parental frustration was invested uselessly into piano lessons for me). But luckily Chika has passed on her “diligence” genes. After the very first time Kai rolled over (shortly after the last video), he was at it again almost every chance he got. When he woke up, when you put him down, the next thing you knew he was on his stomach.
Which is a great and wonderful achievement and important development step and then an impending sense of terror that we can never leave Kai unattended unless behind bars (i.e. the crib) or strapped down. But really, we are very happy and proud of Kai.
Ringing in 2011
The contrast between the start of 2010 and 2011 is representative of our own transformations. NYE 2010 was spent skiing in France with 20+ friends in a rented chalet, with huge dinner, drinking, dancing, etc. 2011 was spent off in another continent in a sea town on the West coast of Japan. A small cozy dinner at Chika’s aunt and uncle’s house and later a trip to the temple.
The temple ritual focuses on ringing the ceremonial bell around midnight, and its meaning is about letting go of our wants and desires, 108 to be exact. Kai had finally gone to sleep around 11pm, so Chika decided to stay home with him while I went with Yukie, Megumi, and the uncle’s family to the temple.
After queuing and ringing the bell, we went into the temple for a quick trip into the sanctuary, followed by a traditional bowl of noodle soup. We sat in the communal area around the fire, enjoying hot soup, some sake, and interesting company. The monk of the temple came over for a nice chat. As he seemed quite young, I am sure we will meet again for many more New Years in the future.
In reflection, it is has been a great year for us to grow as a family, in many ways. Both Chika and I have had fantastic adventures travelling and enjoying many things around the world. But now the center of our universe is changed with Kai. We will not completely stop travelling or exploring, but will do it as part of Kai’s growing experiences as well. He is fortunate to have loving families and rich traditions from both East and West to start experiencing early on in his life. And Chika and I will now focus on enjoying the ride alongside him. So begins 2011.
Although a bit dark, you can at least hear the bell ringing here.
Commercial Christmas
Have you ever wondered what would happen if you completed removed all religious connotations or context from Christmas? Then you should come to Japan.
Even the most bustling cities in the West, including Manhattan, come to a standstill (or at least a slow crawl) for Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. I fondly remember the days of walking into Nobu Next Door without a reservation on Christmas Eve and being directly seated without even a snippet of attitude.
Having encountered Shibuya (shopping and outing epicenter of Tokyo) on both Christmas Eve and Christmas Day, it was the completely different experience — the Commercial Christmas. A great excuse to buy special foods, go out on dates or with friends, shop for that last minute presents, etc. And everyone gets in on the game. Cakes for Christmas, champagne for Christmas, special bagels for Christmas, and even special KFC for Christmas (interesting post about that here.)
So if you are not going to be with the family drinking eggnog and singing carols, next time I’d recommend jumping on a plane and enjoy a decadent holiday of a different kind in Tokyo.